Lessons of life....

Experience taught me a few things. One is to listen to your gut, no matter how good something sounds on paper. The second is that you're generally better off sticking with what you know. And the third is that sometimes your best investments are the ones you don't make - Donald Trump

From the last date I update my blog until today, I've learn a lot of lessons in my life. From how to handle a 2 1/2 years old boy emotions, how sometimes we need to be self centred, how to read or at least predict other people mind, family affairs, to business and accounting. Well the least point of course related to my job now.

Bottom line I've learn that anything you do or you intended to do have to be base on your religion, trusts, guts and finally luck will be on your side. But always..always remember to pray hard.

Dalam hidup nie ade banyak sangat simple rules yg kite selalu tak ikut...that's why Islam rules is the most complete guidance for our life..It covers a lot of areas from how to live a life up to science, business, astronomy, astrology, arts and so on. It thoughts us how to be check and balance. Cuma kebanyakan dari kite suka cipta rules sendiri..main hentam semborono saje....simple example like a successful businessman couldn't afford to make the same mistake twice; if not they would be in trouble.

Hidup kiter sekarang nih kira terlalu bertuah sebab dah banyak org2 cerdik pandai sebelum nih dah buat research and study about a lot of things yg kiter boleh follow tak payah susah2 nak pikir kenapa mesti jadi mcm tu or how to make it happened. Simple example kiter dah tau yg ayam tu boleh di makan or durian tu sedap...bayangkan berapa ramai org2 zaman purba yg mati or sakit sebab nak test benda2 tu semua boleh makan ke tak.

How about family affairs...We've been thought that we must respect your family first than other people. But we forgot that they are also humans that make mistakes no matter your grandparent, your parent, husband/wife,MIL, FIL, brothers, sisters, nephew, nieces etc all will not escape from making mistakes even yourself. And trusts does not belong to who you are..either your family or outsider as long as you build a good rapport and relationship with others you will definately get other people trusts. But sadly, most people out there always have this kind of thinking that family is the first person you can trust with...well is not work with me..really...to survive in this crap little world nowdays you really need to be self centred sometimes...others people may not think as what you think...either they will really want you to success, to help you , be a shoulder to cry on or they just being hypocrite, full with envy, sarcastic and can't wait to watch you down. And again this simple life rules is apply to all human on earth no matter they are in your family or not. That's why in Islam said..there's nothing you can bring back to 'akhirat' except doa dan amalan kite. For me this means is how you live your life not who that you belong to...if you father is 'tok imam' or 'warak or you husband is 'Ustaz', your brother is 'Tahfiz' that doesn't count whether you'll be place in syurga or not..All up to yourself...So bottom line you are the one who will know wat will you be now and in akhirat..that's y I said most of the time we need to be self centred...that's it...

Dah banyak mumbling today need to continue reading "Accounting Information System-Chap 3" now.

It's Monday again...

Its monday again..Urghhh how I wish everyday is Sunday!...tak puas laa duk rumah with my hubby n kid..last weekend was a tremendous week.. we had picnic at 'Ulu Yam' by the riverside..bawak qareez pergi mandi sungai sampai dia menggigil kesejukkan..but he's really enjoy himself. papa hilang spec sebab terbabas nak selamatkan qareez dari jatuh dlm air..hehehe actually that's only a reason why he needs new spec. tulaa asyik cakap nak pi tukar spec jerr..kan dah ilang betul2 dlm air. Anyway it was a really2 an enjoying moment... just the three of us oopss 4 actually including the one in my belly ;)..Balik dari ulu yam terus gi buat spec mata papa kat 'Carrefour' plus we need to fill up my kitchen with groceries..qareez dah tak larat terus tertidur as soon as we reach carrefour..we thought nak letak dia dlm trolley with bantal and his 'Tom' but at last he stay awake untill we reach back home..qareez nih btul2 nak jadi ultraman agaknye..but next morning tido sampai tak ingat dunia..woke up at 12 noon..best btul..qareez dah start ikut patern mama n papa nye..hehehehe..

On Sunday we just decided to saty at home..me have to cook for lunch and dinner sekali..papa tak habis2 nak puji my cooking...either he really miss my cooking or he is damn hungry at that time..;)qareez pun berselera btul...petang tu papa promise nak beli helmet(for kids) utk qareez since he's really2 minat sgt pakai helmet...suker giler budak kecik tu sampai bawak tido..pagi nih pergi schoolpun pakai helmet...so funnyy!

This morning I apply for a leave for this coming Wednesday and Thursday. I have this craft class at de palma hotel..bestnyeee. The class actually will teach me how to make flower from clay. It's call Japanase Clay Flower. I can't wait so excitednyee...I think that's all i want to update abt my enjoying weekend..can't wait for the class..

Things happened around the week...

Today I want to share about things that happening around me for the last couple of days. Actually last week on Saturday 2/2/08, I have attended my best friend engagement ceremony, Lalitha aka lalat at her mom house Taman Ibu Kota. Since this is the first time I attend indian engagement ceremony, I was quite shock at first when I saw a people from temple came to witness the event. At first I was confuse, thought the engagement turn out to be a wedding event ( knowing lalat..who knows she tried to surprise people..heheh). Anyway what I can say it was a really sweet and touching event where both of their parents tie knot to each other by their so called 'Kadi' aka Sami (dun really know wat they called in tamil..heheh). Since they were talking in tamil so I guess it was like promising each other to take care and share the love of their children, their future grandchild, be a good parents in laws and don't fight against their 'menantu'(heheh, pandai2 jer aku tambah2, best jugak kalau malay tradition ada nasihat2 percuma gini sebab selalunye hanya couple jer yg kena nasihat). Lalitha looks very beautiful and stunning in her pink sari as well as her fiancee in white punjabi suites. As usual she always remind me of Jacquline Victor-my fav singer vice versa. They've already pick a date for their wedding..would be somehere in June..if not mistaken 14 June 08..I would really hope I can attend their wedding since it will definately fall during my confinement day (Don't care hubby...U must take me to their wedding)

On that Saturday nite I attend a weedding of my ex-secondary schoolmate, Syhuhada at Ampang. The wedding was fabulous with garden theme. The brides was in white wedding suites. Eventhough it was raining all nite but the ceremony was very cheerful and the crowd is huge. We can see a few table full with japanese people...that must be Syuhada colleague or he ex-uni friend. Besides all the things, I was quite surprised when I saw another friend (which also happened to be my ex-schoolmate)of mine become her bridesmaid--Aisyah. The thing is that I've received her wedding invitation which is happened to be the following week. Isn't that weird...coz normally for a malay tradition a bride to be are not supposed to expose themselve too much especially when the time is near to the wedding date. My mom definately will kill me if I did such things.

Anyway to continue my story...I had several event for CNY holiday. My sister clinic opening, my neighbour open house, Aisyah wedding and mak su zah grandson 'cukur jambul'. My holiday was really fully occupied this time. Thanks to my most sporting hubby that really make my day off and not to forget my cute-lil'pie Qareez Iskandar to behave himself this time. To my surprise, he's totally act like a grown up kid and really know how to adjust himself according to time and place. To all my friends who just started your marriage life, I wish you all the best, God bless you and Insyallah bahagia selalu.

Newborn blog

Just started to write my own blog..finally..after a very long...long thoughts of having one by my own...by having this blog hopefully will share my thoughts about life, facts and myths and things happening around me day by day..insyallah